Diagnosis & Assessment

The Waiting List for ADHD Assessment Is Months Long — What to Do Right Now

LauraMay 20263 min read

You've been told the wait is 12 months. Some families are told 18. You've known something was different about your child for years and now you're being asked to wait another year for anyone to officially confirm what you already know.

The waiting list crisis for ADHD assessment is real, widespread, and genuinely hard. Here's what you can do that doesn't require a diagnosis.

Step 1: Start Documenting Now

An ADHD assessment requires evidence of behaviour across multiple settings and over time. Start a diary now. Note specific incidents — what happened, when, how long, what triggered it, what helped. This documentation strengthens the assessment when it finally happens.

Ask your child's teacher to complete the Vanderbilt or Conners rating scale (these are free, downloadable, standardised questionnaires). Teacher completion at this stage means you have baseline data from before any interventions — which is diagnostically valuable.

Step 2: Ask the School for Informal Supports

Schools don't require a diagnosis to support a child. A school that is aware of your concerns can put informal strategies in place right now:

  • Preferential seating near the front, away from distractions
  • Written instructions in addition to verbal
  • Chunked tasks with short endpoints
  • Movement breaks
  • Extra time for tests
  • A quiet space for regulated work

Write to the school — don't just ask verbally — and ask for an informal review of your child's needs. Many schools have a SENCo (UK) or learning support coordinator (AU) who can put these accommodations in place without a formal plan.

Step 3: Join the Waitlist Everywhere

Join more than one waitlist simultaneously. Private clinicians, hospital services, university clinic programs (cheaper and often shorter waits). In Australia, ask specifically about developmental paediatricians rather than only psychiatrists — wait times are sometimes shorter. In the UK, ask about CAMHS ADHD clinics as well as private options.

Step 4: Access Support for Yourself

The waiting period is stressful for parents as well as children. This is a legitimate time to seek your own support — a GP appointment about the family stress, a parent support group (ADHD Australia runs excellent ones), or peer community through CHADD (US) or ADHD Foundation (UK).

Step 5: Learn About ADHD Now

The framework for understanding your child doesn't require a formal diagnosis. Books like "The Explosive Child" (Ross Greene), "Smart but Stuck" (Thomas Brown), "How to ADHD" (Jessica McCabe) — and Liora — give you tools now that you don't have to wait for.

The assessment confirms and opens doors. But understanding your child starts today.

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